Dressing up, said Sian: that's the theme for stories this month on Story Telling Sunday. I don't remember any dressing up, really, I mused, as I unfolded the covering around the pile of family linen which Mum had given me to 'look after' a few months ago before her operation. Perhaps I'll have to give Sian's wonderful feature a miss this month: I really need to work out how best to store all these lovely pieces ... And as I lifted and shook out the table- and tray-cloths, sheets, pillow-cases and pyamas bags, admiring the fine needlework and beautiful embroidery (some of them done by my very talented Mum), I realised that though there wasn't much 'dressing up' of people, we certainly did a lot of dressing up in other ways. "`Even just tatties (potatoes) and butter" Mum used to say "taste best on a well-dressed table". And she was a real expert: a handful of wild flowers in a glass, a crisp white table runner and napkins, and it didn't matter that it was only lentil soup again. Then right at the very bottom, wrapped in cotton, I found this ...

And there, in Mum's handwriting, was a tag explaining it was either for a bed or a large table. Why didn't she know, I wondered? I don't remember this heavily and richly embroidered cloth. Just as I was folding it up again, admiring the wonderful variety of stitches, the tag flipped over and there, on the back, was the story. Mum had written a message:
"This bed spread/or tablecloth was given to Grandma Lindsay by staff of Thomas Somersett's linen business, where she worked, as a wedding gift. NB It was her wish that Alexa should have it after Jack". (Jack is my Dad).
I smiled through the tears: Mum found a way of making sure that it, and its story, would reach me. Grandma Lindsay had, I knew, worked in a linen factory in Belfast, though I hadn't known its name. She had loved it, being very sad to have to leave when she married - the rule in those days, almost a hundred years ago now.
I am not sure that I will ever have the courage to use this wonderful piece, but I will be treasuring the tag as much as the embroidered linen itself. You'll see that it was tied on with ribbon: Mum dressed even the simplest and humblest item beautifully ... I was going to say "And that's my story for today", but it is, in truth, much more my grandmother's story and - most of all - my Mum's.